Connection is the Way, the Truth, and the Light

Our society is sick with disconnection. Autistic and neurotypical people both experience this. Perhaps autistic and developmentally delayed people may be more acutely aware of the disconnection in our society. Any group that is marginalized experiences this disconnection ever more profoundly.  Heart-Centered ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis) brings the light of loving connection to help transform … Read more

The Truth About Emotional Regulation

None of us are regulated. We are predominantly in a heightened state of fear almost constantly that’s keeping us trapped in our minds and unable to tune into what is actually happening inside us. Emotional Regulation or Self-Regulation is a term used often in Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) and behavioral health. Emotional regulation is the … Read more

Learning Through Mistakes

We are all experiential learners. Do you remember learning to walk? We started by learning to crawl first (usually). As we shift from crawling to standing upright with support, to gradually hobbling and walking, we fall down quite a bit. Most babies experience a lot of crying and frustration as we seek uprightness. Mistakes and … Read more

Unconditional Love is the Medium for Growth

Heart-Centered ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis) rides on the wings of love. Another less poetic way of saying this is unconditional love is the carrier wave for Heart-Centered ABA. Heart-Centered ABA is a kind of behavior change science that is based on inner qualities of love, truth, empathy, and the realization of human potential founded by … Read more

Centering in the Heart at Will

The ability to center in the heart at will is what humanity needs most so we can live in our hearts. This ability to center in the heart lies at the core of Heart-Centered ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis). Heart-Centered ABA is an approach to working with both our inner and outer behavior to create more … Read more

What is Heart-Centered ABA?

Conventional Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) uses the environment and reinforcement to shape people’s behavior. It comes out of the work of BF Skinner and many other great behavior psychologists who have evolved and pioneered the field of study. Many others, along with Skinner, have shaped the field into what it has become today, including Baer, … Read more

Self Care as the Center

The Self is the center around which everything turns. I remember when I first realized the significance of the profound message we hear everytime we fly in an airplane on a commercial airline: “You must put your own oxygen mask on first, before you help secure anyone else’s.” It seems obvious we should all be … Read more

For example: 

If the client is nonverbal we might work on expanding their communication skills to include gestures or pictures.

If the client is overstimulated in the grocery store, goals might include short trips to the store with ways to self-regulate.